Jerk It Out
Hello your nasties, I am back again. This time I am talking about something we all like to do, well I hope the majority of us do. That’s jerking off. This isn’t only exclusive to guys, I know my fair share of women who like to get their jerk on. Do you remember the first time you learned how to pleasure yourself? Did you learn it by accident, or were you like me, and a friend told you how. How old were you, and have you stopped since? I know I havent. Do you enjoy it more, as an adult, or was your teen years the best masturbating years of your life. Or are you one those people, becuase now they have a partner, don’t enjoy the pleasure of self-love? Well from my research there is a whole world of people who love to bait.
Let’s have a think about in the ways you can get your self off. Some people use porn, some people use video chat. Some people like to reads FabEs’ Gett Off (shameless plug).Whatever way you do it, there is nothing wrong with rubbing one out. Beside this public service announcement about looking self-love, there is a big culture in masturbating. Its properly bigger than you ever realised. We no longer in a time where we are being told that we are going to go blind. We are living a time were we encourage masturbation.
While Twitter is turning to a shit show, if you have a look on there, there a massive subculture of people who love to jerk off. If you know how twitter works there a threads and threads of people sharing pictures, tips, and challenges. Which is kind of cool, as I didn’t know these things when I was younger. Which would have helped not doing the embarrassing way I started. I like to think these things properly existed ten twenty years ago, but seeing as the internet has a lot of deep pockets I wasn’t aware of them. I’m very glad I know of their existence, as you need to celebrate all kinds of sex. There are JO tags on Grinder and other dating sites to help people identify each other. In addition to making more of a moment.
When we last spoke, I said there was something I would like to do in reference to sex clubs. Well, I found out there is a jerk of society, who have a night. Where people can go and jerk off with other guys. Which is kind of nice; as it allows you to socialise with people who share you an sexual interest. I wish I had the time to go and experience it. As I would like to know what the atmosphere is like, and what kind guys go. Also to see if people are just constantly cumming, are they edging (more on that later), or are people doing frotting? These are the kind of things I would like to know. Maybe one Monday I might have the time to check it out. Watch this space.
Okay lets talk about edging. If you don’t know it is let me enlighten you.
Edging (also called surfing, peaking, teasing) is the practice of stopping yourself from reaching orgasm right when you’re on the cusp or “edge”.
Which some people can do for hours. Can you imagine, stroking your dick for 3 to 4 hours. I mean why not? Some people like to have sex for a long time. So why can’t some enjoy a wank for a long time. I am aware some people like someone to jerk and edge themselves. While I know some people enjoy doing it to others. I say just do what feels right.
Of course there are benefits of jerking off. Besides the sexual pleasure, there are a lot of benefits to men who jerk off regularly. The sensation of feeling good, is a release of endorphins. A 2004 study found that men who ejaculated more than 21 times a month reduced their risk of prostate cancer by roughly 33 percent. So if you’re not jerking it and worried about cancer, get to it! Additional it helps you when you have sex with a partner. You learn when you’re going to cum. So then you know how to stop that with another person. Also if you can jerk it for a couple of hours, you might be able to last longer in bed. Here’s hoping.
As well all things that are good, there is such a thing of over indulgence. I’ve thought many times in the past; Am I jerking too much. I thought about it a lot when I was teen. When I would spend all day just doing it. You know cumming like five to six times. Just constantly watching porn and just cumming. Now I know I’m okay. However, if you’re just constantly thinking about jerking off, you’re doing it too much. If you are just doing it constantly and not worried about food, life of work. You’re doing it too much. Some people might say it sounds stupid, but it is one of those things, that can happen to a person. It is a form of sex addiction. If you or know someone who might be worried about it, get them or yourself some help. If it’s stop being fun and being an addiction and some you feel like you got to do at non suitable times. You’ve got a problem!
One thing I know from meeting guys; when I was single, people used to think that me masturbating meant that I was using it an a substitution for sex. When in fact it’s additional act of sex. Wither I am doing it alone, or doing with someone else. I know some people might use it a substitution instead of meeting other people. Which is fair enough, that is their choice. Personally, I would much prefer to have someone to jerk it for me, or jerk with me. Or you know, jerk them off; but you know, that’s me. I like all hands on dick!
If you havent jerked on in a while, go and do it! Go and enjoy yourself! Use toys, your hands, someone else hand. Just have fun with yourself. Don’t let no one or anything make you think you’re a freak for enjoying releasing yourself. Now if you excuse me, I’m going to look at my fiancé while I jerk off.
