Sex Club
I have returned, how could I not? When we’re going to be doing a season of sin, you know there is a tonne of NastyDirtyFreaky shit out there for me to explore. Which is why for my first post back I’ve deceived to look at something we couldn’t really do, for a year an half, and thats go to clubs, and more specifically, gentlemen only establishments.
As I hope you are all more than aware, being queer hasn’t been easy. It has been something use queer folk had to do in secret. One of the ways this was done was having business only visited by men. Where men could go and met other likeminded men. However, due to the invention of the internet, there has been a lot less of a need for these kind of business. Which is why, London has slowly lost a lot of it saunas; which I wish I had the courage to check out in my youth. As saunas now are very far and few in between, and also the price isn’t exactly cheap for the ones that are trying to keep the lights on. Which is why, when a friend of mine said he wanted to go to a sauna, I suggested a sex club instead.
Why, I hear you ask; for one I dont have to be in a towel or semi naked, or naked, if don’t choose to be. I’m a man of colour, too much moisture is terrible for my skin. No I like a place where I can go, be dressed and then par take in anything losing of garments I choose. Please remember I do have a fiancé, and he did join me and my friend on our little excursion. If you couldn’t tell, we’re that freaky!
The club we went to is a little venue called, The Vault 139, just off Warren Street station. After checking out the site, and seeing what was the best night for us to go, we decided on a Saturday. People are more likely to be their because it’s the weekend. Which is very important if you’re going to hook up. What’s then point in going if you’re choices are limited? More the merrier, as we say. (All puns intended). We paid for entry, which gives you a drink and cloak room. Then handed a ticket and a little safe sex kit (always classy to see) then we were in the club.
This place isn’t exactly big. It isn’t the large clubs and ballrooms I used to hang out in. It’s a small basement club, with a bar and back rooms and other slightly covered areas to have sex in. As we went on a Saturday it is known as All or Nothing, which basically means there wasn’t a strict dress code. If you find seeing men of all different size nude or half nude offensive, maybe you want to give it a miss. As soon as we walked in, there were people just in jocks and underwear (love it!) Some people just butt ass naked! I’m not going to lie to you, I was shocked for a moment, but then I got myself back. I honestly admire the people who can do that, if they’ve had a couple drinks in them or not I don’t know, but go on boys!
After getting our first drink it was time to explore our surroundings. As, this a sex establishment, when you walk behind a curtain and see someone getting fucked, it makes you think, will I be doing that tonight? After doing a lap, my friend and I parted ways, he went to explore, while me and fiancé did our naughty thing of, watching and being watched. Freaky! As I am coupled, I asked my friend to give me his account of the evening to give you guys an idea of what it is like. You know the singles person opinion, not my limited experience.
Going on a Saturday was a stroke of genius, there was so many men there, it was so hard getting to the bar. Which is why I found the naked guys even braver, as with such close quarters you were having people bush on people as they passed. Which is an odd sensation when you’re brushing past a naked person. Some would wonder who are the kind of people who go to places like this? I can say guys my age and older, and I’ve recently turned thirty for the second time, and without taking everyone’s ID, most were at least, late twenties to you early thirties up to about sixty, seventy. The fiancé got to chatting a man in his seventies.
There was also some nice observations I found comforting. There were quite a few people of colour in the club. Which is nice, as most times I don’t really see a lot of them in gay bars, so this was welcome. Mot many of the people who were nude, or in underwear were you generic, model type. There were a lot fuller figure guys who showing what they had, and to them I rate them for it. To me this is the real person experience, rather than the idea of the underwear model, everyone seems to have.
Okay, let’s get to the meat (giggdy) you’re here for the sex, so let’s talk about it. Firstly, I noticed were people jerking off in the open. Slowly drinking, watching guys, and gently jerking their cocks. Not everyone was doing with their cocks out mind you, but when you can’t help but trying to avoid eye contact with people giving you unwanted nods, you can’t but notice someone jerking off in the trousers.
I asked my friend for updates when would past each other. First time we passed he said, he gotten a blow job. Then second time, he had sucked several cocks, in addition to be sucked several times also. He and some guy he met, shared a guy apparently. With one working the nipples and one working the cock. Then the wildest thing he told me, he licked the cum out of a guys ass, just after a guy just come in him. In total he reckons he had; sucked 5 cocks, got 10 blowjobs and fucked 2 guys all in the space of about 3 hours. I think he got his money’s worth!
As for me, besides someone thinking I was a drug dealer (thanks for racial stereotyping), I did met one of two people who very nicely asked if they could just touch my cock. One of these was in the bathroom, and the other was during an encounter. Of course, it wouldn’t be a Carey Nick night out if I didn’t run into someone I know. This time it was three people. Which isn’t bad, we didn’t play, but maybe next time.
Would I recommend sex clubs and saunas to people who are thinking about it? If you have an interest give it a go and make up your own opinion. Do I think people who judge the people who go there, that they are better than everyone else, no I do not. The thing about the club is people aren’t going because they are perverts, or desperate. They go because it’s easy. In comparison to what I know the apps to be. You can go meet someone do a thing be done, and then never seem them again. Or you can go do several things and have good time. For my friend, he was nervous to go, but after felt great. He felt great because there was so many guys who wanted him, and it was a easier to show interest rather than hoping someone would reply. Or do worse.
I also think it shows a great deal of bravery and self confidence in a person to go, and actually do something with other’s. As I know some might go and feel too intimidated to engage. If you do, you will get what you want out of the situation.
I also know the clubs and saunas are a big thing for people who are into anonymous sex. I can see why, you don’t need names, just approach guy and job done. However, I am more than aware of the darker side; some guys might be cheating on spouses. Even though it happen anywhere. Also the risk of STI’s and Monkey Pox, is always something to consider. Which is why, have full check before you go, and three months after to make sure you’re all clear.
As for me, will be returning the sex club any time soon? Maybe I will, It’s the kind of place I know if I went every week, I’d start to see some people doing the same, to get off. Also at the same I could see if slipping into an addiction, and I feel like I’ve got too many of those (how many pairs of Nike shoes do I need?).
As I’m only getting two post this season (boo!), when I see you next time, we’ll have to talk about something I could expense account, to check out and tell you nasties. It’s similar but not quite the same.
