Gett Off
Dear friends,
During this time, I know we’re going from an issue of sorts. One the things I’d know about for a long time, some men need sex. As we can’t go to other people homes, and some are getting arrested for throwing gang bangs, it makes me question, how are all getting off?
I know I hate the stereotype that all gay guys do is have sex all time. Some of us are in a “committed long term relationship” and we’re not the lesbian stereotype either, we don’t all live together. What are we doing to fill our sexual needs in this time of solitude? I think a lot of us are self-serving, and a I know some are doing it two times a day. It got me wondering, what I can do to help?
I am not saying I’m offering my services online like a lot of adult entertainers are offering. I am thinking about using one of my other non-sexual talents to help some of the sex starve men I know in my life. I mean it’s not like it just a thing where I can offer BJs and handies like I did back in my twenties. It’s time for me to use another skill I know I have, writing.
Since I have gone back to school, I have got my bug for writing fiction again. I don’t know if it because I’ve got to teach it, something is getting my head going. As I’ve got nothing but time on my hands, I feel its time I try my hand at erotica again.
I want to do this for two reasons, one I’ve previously mentioned. The second being I’ve got to write “kid friendly” stuff most of the time. It would be nice for me to write for adults in my spare time. This hasn’t been a new idea btw; it’s been something I have been thinking of for a couple of weeks. Since I like to change up what I do each day, I feel like I can spare a couple hours a week to get something out.
What I want to get out is the question I have been asking myself. Once again, I feel like I’ve been too FabEs about it, and over thought what I must do. I’ve been thinking about writing these perfect weeklong sagas. When I should just write anything and see where it takes me. I have years of experience of know what guys like to do to get off, so it shouldn’t be too hard for me to write about.
I think the hardest thing about writing is, we know the story we want to tell, but who are we writing it for? Ourselves, friends, just to prove we can do it. This time I know who I am writing for, I am writing for horny gay dudes, who can read the English language world over. As well as straight girls who like some man on man action. (Dont be ashamed ladies #ownit). With what that basic principal, I know what I should be doing.
Also, I know how to write erotica, becuase it isnt just about the fucking. It’s about a lot more than that; the atmosphere, tension and wanting. I know all of these so let’s put this down and see what I can come up with. I am not going to write some terrible fan fiction story, that doesn’t know how gay sex works. I know! Let’s make it more believable than bending over and sticking it in.
In between all the various thing I have got going on, I am still going to try and help the people any way I can. If I could find out a way to audio record it might help. But who knows? Just an FYI, because everything I write I get asked this, so I feel I should mention it. The characters aren’t me, It’s called FICTION people! Here’s to you guys pitching tents and coming soon.
Xo FabEs