Ayo Pornography (Take 2)
Dear friends,
This has always been something I’ve wanted to talk about. The only issue I’ve had is wither or not if it was too exposing. However, from the conversations I’ve had with people, has made the decision easier. With the use of technology we are finding it easier and easier to find and consume pornography.
Last time I was talking about this topic, I was talking about going out in the real world and meeting people instead of relying on tech. Of course I went and did that, then we had a pandemic, which meant we had to use all these things again. I of course, had a brake up and I had to use a lot these things also. However, since I felt bad about myself I used technologies to view porn.
Like most people I know, I was exposed to porn at a very young age. As a teen we tried to see as much as we could; before I had home internet, we would just pass around tapes of things we found. I remember once I was selling copies of a video to friends at school. This was all very heterosexual, I didn’t get into the gay stuff till we had a home internet connection. Thought things like LimeWire I was able to find the videos of things I was curious about. Since then it’s become even easier, we now have Pornhub, Only Fans and Twitter (X). Where you can see anything from a quick jerk off, to a full blown scenes. It’s no wonder how people get addicted.
In the time I have known some of my friends I’ve known about their past, when it comes to the addiction of porn. Some because it was just constantly available. It’s so easy to find the right clip of what you’re looking for. Then sometimes that clip isn’t as hot as someone wants it to be, well that’s fine; the solution is only a few button pushes away. Or if you’re like me, you can go a few steps on socials without someone linking something to a something explicit. Thanks to social media you can follow your favourite adult performers and catch all their scenes. It’s no wonder why some people have gigabytes of the stuff on hard drives. Which is where I feel some people have gotten the wrong idea.
When I talk to people and I say I am either watch, or asking about porn, there is this miss conception I am using the porn an alternative to sex. Which I kind of understand. Why would some need to go out to have sex, when they could watch a movie with a person they find attractive, and pretend that they are the person receiving/doing the actions. What I don’t like, is the people who get on their high horse and judging people for watching it, and some of the condescending comments. To me these kinds of people are similar to the homophones, they are protesting just a bit too much.
However, from what I’m now about my friends and some people through the years, people just enjoy it. As a ways or exploring their fantasies; without having to really experiment. Just get an idea of how it might work, then take it out in the real world. Or just watch it have jerk and call it a day. When they finish it get turned off and people go about their business. However, one of my favourites is people who use to get in the mood, and then it becomes background noise. Or if you’re like me and my friends, you make an evening of it, and watch together. Fun times!
One thing though, I feel like to some people who have grown up watching porn from as young as I did; some have a lot of miss conceptions about porn. Some people seem to think everything they see on the screen is real. Yes the straight guy in the bar is going to suck off a guy for money and being filled. Or that that the stranger they just met, is going to have a perfectly clean hole. Or that said hole can take a cock with a just some spit. No! This is all lies and set it isn’t real! Which I feel like has warped some peoples mind to think that porn is a documentary, when it’s just like another production. It’s all tricks and sleight of hand. You don’t see what is going on behind the scenes. Which links back to what is said last time, that people think when you cum sex is over. Why do they think that? Well because most porn scenes ends when the guy cums. If that’s all you know, why would you do anything else? Which is why I’m glad studios like Himeros.tv is trying to change the perception of adult entertainment.
The way in which I use porn is simple. I enjoy it with friends, I enjoy alone. I used to make an evening of it once a week before I got together with someone. We still watched it together, but not as much. Which was all made easier as now I could take it away from my laptop screen, to my big screen. Which then changed the way I went about enjoy it. I wanted more high quality stuff; so I didn’t have to look so pixelated on my screen. I do have my favourite genres, performers and studios. However, my perception has changed a little recently.
In my view a lot of stuff I used to enjoy; I don’t so much as a lot of it, it has become very same-my. I don’t know if that’s just me watching too much, but how many times can you watch the same set up and enjoy it. I know there many who’s tastes never change, but for me after a while the same thing becomes boring. Which doesn’t mean I have given up on porn, it just means I like when new things are tried. Such as, bareback porn is now the norm, ten years ago that wasn’t the case. Which is why it would be interesting to see more sex with condoms. While the same goes with body types, which is why I’m glad that Only Fans exists, and pushing the idea that not all porn performers have to look like they live in the gym.
I am going to continue to enjoy porn how I see fit. I’m aware it could become a problem if I sink too much time into. I am well aware with some people it is a hot button issue, but that gives no one the right to judge others for how they live. Porn is a million dollar industry it’s here to stay. Tell me how you like your porn in comments below, and I’ll see you on porn hub.
Xo FabEs
