In Public

With summer almost being here, it could only mean one thing, its time to go out and start having sex outside. It’s cruising time again! Not that it went anywhere. It just a lot more prevalent due to it being summer. As it’s lighter longer, and you can have warm nights, so of course it means go your local park, get your dick out and see who stops by.

I think a lot of us wanting to have sex outdoors is our way of getting back to nature. You know being able to be bare bottomed outside. I wish I could say that, but it was, I wouldn’t be here to write about the nice things people like to do. This wouldn’t be titled NastyDirtyFreaky. Let be real, people like to have sex outside, because of the thrill it gives. That little rush of adrenaline. The idea we might get caught, or someone might want to watch what where doing. However, given that we have been stuck indoors for such a long, its time to spice it up a little bit.

This doesn’t mean sex is just limited to the parks, forests, and other greenery areas. It can happen anywhere, from the back of a car, the bus, the tube, or your stairway. Yes, these are all the different places people go to have sex. If you’ve got the balls (hate that phrase), do it wherever you feel like you want to. Who am I judge? I’ve done it in too many public places to count.

Bound In Public

This is where I would normally talk about porn, and of course there is a shit tonne of porn which cater to the outside sex experience. But I think we’ve seen a lot of porn studios doing sex in weird places. I think I should really put a spotlight on the video and pics I’ve seen on Twitter. Ever since Tumblr closed down the uploading of XXX pics, people have started to put more on twitter. If you haven’t looked, I don’t suggest you look now, unless you want to, but a ton of regular joes posting videos of doing things in public.

I’ve also realised it’s not only people having sex outside, its people doing things outside to become the exhibitionist they always wanted to be. Which its own thing, people wanting to show off what they got, or people wanting doing dares in public. I mean there are a tonne of videos of people jacking off in public. There was this guy I was saw on twitter who posted videos of himself public jerking on the Victoria line. Sadly, this account has been deactivated. These videos were very much doing it, while he was surrounded by people. These people who could clearly see what he was doing.

Personally, I don’t see nothing wrong with people wanting to get in on in public. Wither that be alone, or with one or several people. I would just like for people to be aware of what they are doing and try not to make people feel uncomfortable. Just because there is someone near you, it does mean you need to jerk off near someone for shit and giggles. If you’re going to do it, just do it for the rush of it. If you feel like you need to have someone watch to get off, then I think you might some issue. I am not against giving a handy, while driving, or in pitch black cinema but I am not going to do that. Having people feel uncomfortable, about the gays doing weird shit.

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If you are planning to have sex outdoor this summer, let’s remember whose around. If you’re in area with a bunch of people doing it go for it. If it’s a park where kids play, let’s be mindful about who’s around. If you’re like me, keep to the middle of the night so you know it’s a bit safer. Just like when I was giving my boyfriend a bj in the top floor of the Sainsbury’s car park. That was good use of an afternoon. If you don’t know where to cruise, here a little hand guide for those who live in London.