Sexy MF

Dear friends,

Now that I am single, I have been wondering about something, I thought I knew. What do I class as a Sexy MF? I know beauty is objective an all, but I question and have been wondering, what do I find sexy or better yet what do I find attractive?

I don't know if this is a hard question or not. When I think about it, this has been a question I’ve been asking myself for a long time. What do I find sexy in other men? One thing I do know is, the idea of what I found attractive in my last partner isn’t something I am looking for the next one. I have known people whose ex’s who look like almost carbon copies of the past. I wonder will I be like that or will I change the mould.

Of course, I have known many people whose partners have got from different extremes. Just in terms of looks and personality. I know some who have had the clean-cut guy, then switched it up to the guy rocking the ink and wild hair style. What I should have found out if they went for these kinds of people because they wanted some different.

I don’t want to talk about type, I have spoken about it before. If you really want to know about it have a click around here [www.byfabes.com/dating/viva] somewhere for you to find out. I am asking what do I find physically attractive? Which is an odd question or pondering for me, as in the past me a friend had a list of our celebrity crushes, and one period I wasn’t into anyone. Is this the similar thing that is going on with me?

It could be post break up, all my ideals and feelings have been distorted that I’m not even sure anymore. Or have I grown to a point where the superficial means nothing to me. I think a lot of us would like to say, we have had so much personal growth we could be a in a place where it is all inner beauty. Let’s face facts too many of us, me included still like to look at something nice.

Without getting an issue about race and discrimination, let me talk about a few things about thing I have found interesting. For one, I seem to find myself now attracted to the more gym fit type of gentleman. I don't know if this something I have always felt, or if its more the idea they would help look very similar. Also, they’ve got Tight A$$ son! I have also had an attraction to men with shorter hair. As to the colour the genuine salt and pepper look has been getting me going for a long time, and you Red Hot men. One thing I have known for a long time and even more aware of, I’m no longer have attraction to men who are younger than me.

This is an interesting development, because I know many times I have we said to people I prefer older men. Of course, I have never turned away from a younger guy. As I live an adult life, I really don’t find the partying twenty-year-old attractive. Which I think is a good thing, I would want to date someone currently thirty plus. Which might exclude a lot of people, but it’s a preference not a rule.

If I was going to really answer the question of who I would give the title of Sexy MF to right now, I couldn’t god dam answer. Which is sad, because I don't know who or what is sexy. Maybe in a few weeks or months I might now. But even my top five cells keep changing, because I’m constantly thinking, is he though? Maybe I’ll figure it out one done. For now, I am going to keep an eye for the sexy boy, who got me think, you’re so sexy, perfect for me.

Xo FabEs

P.S.

After proofing I have decided I’m going to release my top five Sexy MF celebs this week, so look out for part two.

Xo