Give It 2 U

Have you ever had this happen, when you’re with someone and they ask you if you want to do something, and then you’ve not been sure how to answer? I have so many times, people asking me what I’m into, and then when I have replied then gotten asked am I into a specific thing, and then asked if I’m into it. A lot of the time the thing they are asking about is usually something I have done before, or something I haven’t really thought about. Sometimes I am open to the idea, but what gets very old is; when I ask if that’s what they want me to do them, then the response is, ‘only if you want to.’ 

People, people, people let’s not go dancing around the question at hand, if you want me to do something just say so. Let’s not play these childish games of, well if you want, give me a yes or no answer, I’m simple, just answer. If the answer is no that’s fine then we won’t, but if you say yes, then you are even closer to getting to one of your sexual desires filled. Yes, I know I could simply just do the thing, but I’m asking for clarity sake. If someone tells me they like to have their ass whipped like a horse, that sure as hell is going to be happen to my black ass. However, if they want me to do it to them, I think if I really concentrate and think about the bullies, I’ve met over the years I think I can swing it. 

I dont know if it’s because I’m very forward, or desperate, or horny, I have no issue with asking for what I want. Maybe I’ve lost that part of myself that feels shame, or maybe I just want to get down to action, I have no problem with asking for what I want, or maybe it’s something else I know about people. I’ve known a lot of people have this dark and kinky side within them, and some people feel like they need to hide from everyone, and from the people they are trying to have sex with. I’ve learned over time, the faster you are to open a door to the kinky, people are very quick to jump on through it very quickly. Of course, this isnt always safe sailing, because sometimes it can go nasty very, very quickly and sometimes can be a good thing if you like to get hit shades of grey, but sometimes it’s like nope. Not that I’m judging, it’s just sometimes it’s just so nasty, I’d never be able to look at myself the same way again.

Which I understand where the fear comes from, if you put yourself out there you might have your feelings rejected, and makes you feel like there is something wrong with you. I’d like to say there is nothing wrong with you, and if you can find porn based on a particular idea, there must be a few people who are into it. Or if you are reading this and wondering what some of these things could be, take a little wonder over to Wikipedia and have look at the list of Paraphilia, you can see what some people are into, because theirs is so much.

I like to think as time goes on a lot of things will be more things will become acceptable by more people. Not too long ago BDSM was a something a lot of people wasn’t into, yet nowadays I know so many people personally, who are into something within that area. Which gets me thinking, maybe in about ten, fifteen years something else might come a little bit more mainstream, as it were. I mean many people know what a foot fetish is, now where are going to get more accepting of water sports? If you don't know what that is, google it when you’re alone. 

I just want to say to the sexy men who are reading this, let me know what you’re into, and if I’m down with it I’d happily Give It 2 U.

C.N.