Ayo Technology
As someone who has used the internet for the past decade and a half to meet guys, there are a lot of things I have done to keep guys interested. One of the many ways you show you’re interested is sending a ton of pictures. I would like to say just sending a dick picture is enough to keep people satisfied, but you need a picture from practically all the angles. You need one of your ass, your balls, chest, fully body and for some of even legs and feet. For me however, I am over this preview process.
In the past I would have gone in for it, but now days it has become so boring and so every day it is taking a lot of the fun out stuff for me. I know the situation would be different if was meeting people out in the real world, but I don’t have the time for that. I guess for me I still like to have a little mystery in the people I met. Recently I have been sending suggestive pictures to people who I know I’m not going to meet, or just do a little tease. However, when I get chatting to a guy who isn’t a complete ass, I will hold off the sending and suggest to the person to meet to see the goodies.
I know a lot of people in my world don’t like these kinds of rules. I know for some the default second message is “pics” to which I say fuck off. I just think we’ve got way to lazy and way to selective about everything when need to see a thousand pictures to meet someone, or worse yet even know if we’re interested. For me thought I am standing strong of stopping following these rules this game.
You might say that’s how you play the game, well I say I’m changing the rules and doing things my way. While at the same time not being a sheep who follows everyone else, my style is different and the people who get my style get my time, while those who don’t aren’t even worth my data.
Do I have any more rules, or course I do, but I don’t have be one hundred percent neurotic about them. I am willing to be flexible about them. If I have met someone and I never had the chance to drop my trousers there might an occasion why I might send XXX picture. Or if someone has seen it already and I’m asked I have no issue with it. I just take issue with everyone being lazy and not putting the effort in.
Ten years ago I would have said me thing this way was crazy, because I need to get people to like me. Now as I settle into adulthood I know I don’t need to be worrying about such stupid things. I know people who are older than me still play these kinds of games, and that’s fine for them. I’m just saying I’m going to be Me FE, and I’m tired of using technology, I need you right in front of me.
XO Fabes
